MY METHOD
I'm an outside the box thinker: both in life and in relationships.
I’m here to help you improve and build long-lasting connections. You can think of me as that friend who gives you good advice, the one who listens and uplifts you, the one who makes you feel safe. Many have never had this friend, indeed it is a privilege. Opening up to others and establishing a sound connection takes work, and I'm here as a comfortable, familiar space to facilitate the process. In time, you will find it's a natural impulse to expand your social network.
At some point I became aware of what an underestimated skill it is to be able to naturally connect to others. Relational literacy, though it is not directly monetised, carries infinite value both in financial and personal pursuits. It is the foundational skill in facilitating friendships, making workplace connections, and deepening romantic relationships. Relational skills, however, do not always come naturally.
I noticed a distinct lack of concrete and proactive resources for people who struggle with certain contemporary issues such as social confidence, masculine blocks, non-traditional relationship structures, and taboos surrounding sex and intimacy. So I decided to get creative. I've spent the last several years dedicating myself to developing techniques to aid others in unlocking their relational potential.
If this concept speaks to you, I invite you to peruse my site, fill out my booking form and take the first step towards investing in yourself.
MY JOURNEY
How did I come to build confidence through connection?
I used to believe that my biggest weakness was being “overly emotional.”
As an otherwise assertive and independent person, I felt that my sensitivity was unpalatable and made me vulnerable. Desperate to avoid the experience of pain, I crafted a tough, calculated version of myself, and projected it to the outside world. The result was a false sense of confidence and a great deal of loneliness and frustration.
Struggling to conceal my emotions was exhausting, and not having the tools or desire to communicate what I was feeling resulted in a lot of relational confusion and distress. After years of engaging in unsatisfactory surface connections, I decided it was time to change the trajectory of my own life, and start allowing others in.
What I didn't expect was that facing my emotions and working to empower myself as a sensitive and imperfect person would make me stronger, and more confident than ever.
After a great deal of personal work and emotional upheaval, I discovered the incredible freedom in having nothing to hide. I learned that “responsible vulnerability” is a muscle that needs to be worked, but once mastered becomes like a well-oiled machine. Knowing how and when to be vulnerable is the key to relational happiness and intimacy.
My biggest “weakness” has now become my greatest strength. Inspired and assisted by a host of wonderful mentors, I've spent the last several years developing techniques to help others unlock their relational potential. I possess a natural aptitude for seeing through conflict, and I strive to create an environment in which others feel safe enough to examine themselves. I firmly believe that all conflicts and personal blocks can be solved with patience, respect and effective communication. And that every single one of us has the power to access more relational freedom.
What lies at the core is not as terrifying as you might think. Let's uncover your true self: it is a privilege to be a part of the process.
ABOUT ME
I'm Canadian by birth, currently based in Berlin, and often travelling. I possess what some might call traditionally masculine qualities, but embrace and relish in my femininity. Innovative and non-traditional ways of existing in the world excite me, and are the ethos of my practice. When I'm not coaching, I enjoy long-distance running, fiction-writing, and I'm a nerd for languages and finance. You can find my Linkedin here.
I hold a Bachelor’s Degree in Gender Studies, am a fully certified Life Coach via the International Coaching Federation (ICF), and have over 8 years of private coaching experience
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